{"id":2774,"date":"2017-10-24T16:57:37","date_gmt":"2017-10-24T08:57:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/decibel.one\/staging\/?p=2774"},"modified":"2019-08-05T13:43:51","modified_gmt":"2019-08-05T05:43:51","slug":"your-marriage-doesnt-have-to-be-a-struggle","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/decibel.one\/your-marriage-doesnt-have-to-be-a-struggle\/","title":{"rendered":"Your marriage doesn&#8217;t have to be a struggle"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 hundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"background-color: rgba(255,255,255,0);background-position: center center;background-repeat: no-repeat;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-top: 0px;border-width: 0px 0px 0px 0px;border-color:#eae9e9;border-style:solid;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last\" style=\"margin-top:20px;margin-bottom:10px;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\" style=\"background-position:left top;background-repeat:no-repeat;-webkit-background-size:cover;-moz-background-size:cover;-o-background-size:cover;background-size:cover;padding: 0px 0px 0px 0px;\"><span class=\" fusion-imageframe imageframe-none imageframe-1 hover-type-none\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1920\" image_height=\"1080\" image_id=\"482\" title=\"How to keep love alive in a marriage_hires.00_01_08_16.Still001\" src=\"https:\/\/decibel.one\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/How-to-keep-love-alive-in-a-marriage_hires.00_01_08_16.Still001.jpg\" class=\"img-responsive wp-image-482\"\/><\/span><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-2 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"background-color: #ffffff;background-position: center center;background-repeat: no-repeat;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-top: 0px;border-width: 0px 0px 0px 0px;border-color:#eae9e9;border-style:solid;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_1_5 1_5 fusion-one-fifth fusion-column-first\" style=\"width:20%;width:calc(20% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.2 ) );margin-right: 4%;margin-top:20px;margin-bottom:10px;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\" style=\"background-position:left top;background-repeat:no-repeat;-webkit-background-size:cover;-moz-background-size:cover;-o-background-size:cover;background-size:cover;padding: 0px 0px 0px 0px;\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_3_5 3_5 fusion-three-fifth\" style=\"width:60%;width:calc(60% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.6 ) );margin-right: 4%;margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\" style=\"background-position:left top;background-repeat:no-repeat;-webkit-background-size:cover;-moz-background-size:cover;-o-background-size:cover;background-size:cover;padding: 0px 0px 0px 0px;\"><style type=\"text\/css\"><\/style><div class=\"fusion-title title fusion-title-1 fusion-sep-none fusion-title-text fusion-title-size-three\" style=\"margin-top:16px;margin-bottom:16px;\"><h3 class=\"title-heading-left\" style=\"margin:0;\">Your marriage doesn&#8217;t have to be a struggle<\/h3><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1 caption2\"><p><strong>Lizzy L | 4 min read<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-bottom:20px;width:100%;\"><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-single sep-solid\" style=\"border-color:#d1d1d1;border-top-width:1px;\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-2\"><p>\u201cI don\u2019t have the strength to try anymore,\u201d you whisper, defeated. The person you once believed was the love of your life stares back hollowly. Too many tears of disappointment have been shed, too many hurtful words exchanged, and now you\u2019re both here\u2014at the end of yourselves, and maybe soon, your marriage.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve tried everything, from making compromises for each other to going for counselling\u2014but nothing has broken down the thick walls of hurt and accusation that you find yourselves trapped in.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHow did we get here?\u201d you ask yourself. \u201cAnd how do we get out?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If this is you today, we want you to know that God cares deeply about your marriage, and He\u2019s more than willing and able to turn your situation around.<\/p>\n<h2>Your marriage is close to His heart<\/h2>\n<p>In fact, the first miracle Jesus performed on Earth was at a wedding\u2014where He turned water into wine for a couple who ran out of wine for their guests (John 2:1\u201311). Wine represents joy in the Bible, and is a symbol of the Lord\u2019s abundant blessings.<\/p>\n<p>Think about it: Jesus\u2019 first miracle could well have been Him feeding the hungry, healing the sick, or raising the dead (all of which He went on to do). But nope\u2014He chose to start His earthly ministry by lavishly providing wine (joy) for a bride and groom who\u2019d ran out of it.<\/p>\n<p>As you can see, marriage is certainly something dear to the Lord\u2019s heart. Even if you feel like you\u2019ve failed too much and don\u2019t deserve His help, hey\u2014the newlyweds probably didn\u2019t either (it could\u2019ve just been their own fault for not getting enough wine!).<\/p>\n<p>The Lord desires that we have happy marriages, but He knows that we can\u2019t get there on our own. His first miracle was to bring <em>His own<\/em> overflowing joy into a marriage, and He can still do that for you today.<\/p>\n<h2>His supply comes in superabundant measure<\/h2>\n<blockquote>\n<p>Standing nearby were six stone water jars, used for Jewish ceremonial washing. Each could hold twenty to thirty gallons. (John 2:6, NLT)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>What\u2019s more, when Jesus restores joy to your marriage, He does it exceedingly, abundantly, above all that we ask or think (Eph 3:20). If you do the math, He turned 120 to 180 gallons of water into intoxicating wine! Surely no wedding needs <em>that<\/em> much wine at its close, right?<\/p>\n<p>But it\u2019s just Jesus\u2019 generous nature to do so.<\/p>\n<p>So\u2026if you feel like there\u2019s just not enough love between you and your spouse today, that\u2019s okay. Truth be told, our human thirst to be loved outweighs our ability to love. But God <em>Himself<\/em> is love (1 John 4:8), and we can receive all the love we\u2019ll ever need (and more) from Him.<\/p>\n<p>No amount of human effort could\u2019ve turned even one drop of water into wine in a split-second, much less 6 giant pots of it! It truly takes Jesus\u2019 miracle-working power to change the bland water of a loveless marriage into full-bodied wine.<\/p>\n<h2>You\u2019ll be able to love your spouse, as you receive His love<\/h2>\n<p>You see, so much of our human love is conditional.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIf he changes, I\u2019ll love him.\u201d<br \/>\n\u201cIf she was more supportive of me, I\u2019ll love her.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>But thank God that His love isn\u2019t. And the more we receive His constant, unchanging love for us, the more we can love our spouses out of the overflow.<\/p>\n<p>Because the truth is that we cannot change ourselves or others\u2014we can only love them and trust the Holy Spirit to bring about true transformation.<\/p>\n<p>Tell Him, \u201cLord, I cannot, but You can. You can do for my spouse what I can barely even do for myself.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe\/she doesn\u2019t deserve my forgiveness. But on the cross, You forgave me when <em>I<\/em> didn\u2019t deserve it. So I can forgive even though my heart is still hurt.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Or maybe you\u2019re on the other side\u2014you\u2019ve let your spouse down, or you\u2019ve simply been downright exhausted by his\/her expectations.<\/p>\n<p>But can you take your eyes off everything that\u2019s wrong with you and your spouse, and receive the Lord\u2019s love for you instead? Take some time out alone with Him and pour your heart out to Him. Allow His timeless words of love to wash over you\u2014for one, did you know that He takes delight in you, and wants to calm all your fears with His love? (Zeph 3:17 NLT).<\/p>\n<p>For we can only love when we\u2019ve been truly loved by the Lord.<\/p>\n<h2>It only gets better from here<\/h2>\n<blockquote>\n<p>\u201cA host always serves the best wine first\u2026 But you have kept the best until now!\u201d (John 2:10, NLT)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>We\u2019d like to leave you with this thought: When Jesus turned the water into wine, it was the <em>best<\/em> wine anyone tasted that night.<\/p>\n<p>Plus, good wine gets even better with age\u2014so why shouldn\u2019t your marriage too? Why shouldn\u2019t you be having days of heaven on earth, filled with a love that is full of passion, romance, and unity?<\/p>\n<p>As believers, God promises that our paths will only shine brighter and brighter (Prov. 4:18)\u2014and your marriage is certainly included in that promise.<\/p>\n<p>Even if your marriage is in shambles today, we pray that you\u2019ll know that the Lord is fully able to do a miracle for you which defies all human logic. Just as He turned water into wine in an instant (when wine in the natural takes years to produce), your breakthrough might be closer than you think.<\/p>\n<p>So today, will you invite Jesus into your marriage and receive His love afresh?<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>Three things will last forever\u2014faith, hope, and love\u2014and the greatest of these is love. (1 Cor 13:13, NLT)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-bottom:20px;width:100%;\"><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-single sep-solid\" style=\"border-color:#d1d1d1;border-top-width:1px;\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-3\"><p>Watch our accompanying video <a href=\"https:\/\/decibel.one\/videos\/keep-love-alive\/\">here<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"share-box fusion-sharing-box boxed-icons\" style=\"background-color:#ffffff;\" data-title=\"Your marriage doesn&#8217;t have to be a struggle\" data-description=\"Your marriage doesn&#039;t have to be a struggle \r\n\r\nLizzy L | 4 min read \r\n\r\n\u201cI don\u2019t have the strength to try anymore,\u201d you whisper, defeated. The person you once believed was the love of your life stares back hollowly. 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