{"id":2841,"date":"2019-06-21T20:00:37","date_gmt":"2019-06-21T12:00:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/decibel.one\/?p=2518"},"modified":"2019-08-05T12:13:33","modified_gmt":"2019-08-05T04:13:33","slug":"here-is-how-god-brought-me-out-of-my-unhealthy-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/decibel.one\/here-is-how-god-brought-me-out-of-my-unhealthy-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"I was in an unhealthy relationship that nearly destroyed me\u2014here\u2019s how God brought me out of it"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 hundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"background-color: rgba(255,255,255,0);background-position: center center;background-repeat: no-repeat;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-top: 0px;border-width: 0px 0px 0px 0px;border-color:#eae9e9;border-style:solid;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last\" style=\"margin-top:20px;margin-bottom:10px;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\" style=\"background-position:left top;background-repeat:no-repeat;-webkit-background-size:cover;-moz-background-size:cover;-o-background-size:cover;background-size:cover;padding: 0px 0px 0px 0px;\"><span class=\" fusion-imageframe imageframe-none imageframe-1 hover-type-none\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1920\" image_height=\"1080\" image_id=\"2971\" title=\"here-is-how-god-brought-me-out-of-my-unhealthy-relationship\" src=\"https:\/\/decibel.one\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/here-is-how-god-brought-me-out-of-my-unhealthy-relationship.jpg\" class=\"img-responsive wp-image-2971\" srcset=\"https:\/\/decibel.one\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/here-is-how-god-brought-me-out-of-my-unhealthy-relationship-200x113.jpg 200w, https:\/\/decibel.one\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/here-is-how-god-brought-me-out-of-my-unhealthy-relationship-400x225.jpg 400w, https:\/\/decibel.one\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/here-is-how-god-brought-me-out-of-my-unhealthy-relationship-600x338.jpg 600w, https:\/\/decibel.one\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/here-is-how-god-brought-me-out-of-my-unhealthy-relationship-800x450.jpg 800w, https:\/\/decibel.one\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/here-is-how-god-brought-me-out-of-my-unhealthy-relationship-1200x675.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/decibel.one\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/here-is-how-god-brought-me-out-of-my-unhealthy-relationship.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1060px) 100vw, 1920px\" \/><\/span><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-2 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"background-color: #ffffff;background-position: center center;background-repeat: no-repeat;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-top: 0px;border-width: 0px 0px 0px 0px;border-color:#eae9e9;border-style:solid;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_1_5 1_5 fusion-one-fifth fusion-column-first\" style=\"width:20%;width:calc(20% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.2 ) );margin-right: 4%;margin-top:20px;margin-bottom:10px;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\" style=\"background-position:left top;background-repeat:no-repeat;-webkit-background-size:cover;-moz-background-size:cover;-o-background-size:cover;background-size:cover;padding: 0px 0px 0px 0px;\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_3_5 3_5 fusion-three-fifth\" style=\"width:60%;width:calc(60% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.6 ) );margin-right: 4%;margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\" style=\"background-position:left top;background-repeat:no-repeat;-webkit-background-size:cover;-moz-background-size:cover;-o-background-size:cover;background-size:cover;padding: 0px 0px 0px 0px;\"><style type=\"text\/css\"><\/style><div class=\"fusion-title title fusion-title-1 fusion-sep-none fusion-title-text fusion-title-size-three\" style=\"margin-top:16px;margin-bottom:16px;\"><h3 class=\"title-heading-left\" style=\"margin:0;\">I was in an unhealthy relationship that nearly destroyed me\u2014here\u2019s how God brought me out of it.<\/h3><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1 caption2\"><p><strong>Cherlyn T | 6 min read<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-bottom:20px;width:100%;\"><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-single sep-solid\" style=\"border-color:#d1d1d1;border-top-width:1px;\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-sep-clear\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-2\"><p>Have you ever been in a relationship with someone you <em>kinda<\/em> knew wasn\u2019t good for you, optimistically hoping that you (or God, pretty please You can do anything, can You make him believe You?) could change that person? Yours truly was there once, and now on hindsight, I can say that it was such a bad idea.<\/p>\n<p>What I initially thought was<em> shalom<\/em> peace, was actually my own fleshly excitement overloaded to the maximum. There were supposed warning signals and alarm bells ringing, but my infatuation with my own fantasy drowned out every heavenly clanging cymbal; maybe they should say love isn\u2019t just blind, but deaf too.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t know if you\u2019ve been there, or are going through something similar right now, but I pray you\u2019ll be encouraged as I share my story and truths from God\u2019s Word that you can hold onto\u2014words of wisdom, words about His love and His restoration plan for you.<\/p>\n<h3>When You Start to Realize He\u2019s Really Not \u2018the One\u2019<\/h3>\n<p>For two years, I was with a pre-believer whom I had hoped would eventually receive Christ as his personal Savior. I prayed and waited\u2026but nothing happened. Instead, all I observed was bitterness, brokenness and unforgiveness emerge from a man who I previously thought was \u201cthe one\u201d for me.<\/p>\n<p>As the relationship went on and the romance subsided, I realized that there was little I could comfortably talk to him about in-depth without leading to conflict. Personally, I love talking about Jesus in every sphere of life, so it was challenging for me to be with someone who wanted to do the exact opposite.<\/p>\n<p>And as much as I tried to model the \u2018perfect\u2019 Christian life for him, it seemed as though all the good I did was always overlooked, and any faults were stored for use as personal attacks against my faith whenever conflicts arose.<\/p>\n<h3>Starting on the Right Foot\u2014Jesus<\/h3>\n<p>Eventually, I had to acknowledge the painful truth that Jesus needed to be the core foundation of any relationship I wanted to be part of. Without sharing the same set of values and beliefs, it was a constant challenge to see eye-to-eye. This may not seem significant when making smaller decisions, but in the more important areas of life, this difference becomes impossible to ignore.<\/p>\n<p>It could be relating to his health, where you\u2019re declaring Jesus\u2019 finished work and healing, but the other person doesn\u2019t believe in healing and constantly speaks negatively about his deteriorating condition. Perhaps, a job could be at stake, and while you want to declare the Lord\u2019s favor over your career, the other person would rather count on luck and his self-effort.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s great that you want to believe God for the salvation of a person you\u2019re emotionally attached to, but it\u2019s not God\u2019s idea for you to do that while dating the person. You see, when you enter into a relationship with the intention of changing someone, you will be left disappointed when things don\u2019t play out the way you envisioned. And you\u2019re left with the constant nagging feeling that your relationship would be <em>perfect<\/em> if he would just receive Christ. Yet how do you continue a relationship where the core of what\u2019s most important to you is the very thing that\u2019s absent?<\/p>\n<h3>When Jesus tells you to let go, what do you do?<\/h3>\n<p>Halfway through the relationship, I knew very clearly in my heart that God was telling me that this was not the man for me, and if I stayed, it would ruin me.<\/p>\n<p>Being stubborn (and in too deep), I wanted to hold onto the faith picture that God would remove the thick veil off his eyes, reveal His love for him, and transform him from the inside out. I was so sure, so hopeful, and incredibly prayerful towards this request, but I was hanging on to the wrong kind of hope. I could not turn God\u2019s hand by willfully ignoring His leading, and was prolonging my own struggle instead. Eventually, I knew the only way out was to be obedient.<\/p>\n<h3>There\u2019s no heartbreak God cannot heal, if you\u2019ll let Him<\/h3>\n<p>In the midst of my struggle to hold on, there were many nights where I cried myself to sleep, and could only lull myself to sleep with worship music and Pastor Joseph Prince\u2019s sermons playing in the background. I was such an emotional wreck that I even started harboring suicidal thoughts.<\/p>\n<p>The battle for my mind was evident, but that was also when the Holy Spirit inside of me started to envelop me with supernatural comfort and peace, and I slowly found myself healing in the process of seeking Jesus.<\/p>\n<p>Out of the many wounds that can be inflicted in this world, broken hearts are the hardest to heal. These are the wounds that cut so deep, and hurt so much, that only Jesus Himself can heal and restore back to wholeness.<\/p>\n<p>Each time I felt depressed or anxious, Jesus would give me a word from the Bible that catered to my exact state of mind. It was simply amazing, that Jesus would come to me right at my deepest, darkest moments in life, and shower His love upon me.<\/p>\n<h2>When you can\u2019t let go, ask God to do it for you<\/h2>\n<p>Some of you might be thinking\u2014why didn\u2019t I just immediately get out of this relationship if I already knew it wasn\u2019t going to work out? As many who have been in my place can testify, it\u2019s scary to walk away from a relationship for many reasons, and mine was the fear of being left alone when you\u2019ve become comfortable with having someone by your side, even when it\u2019s the wrong person. Ultimately, God is faithful. If He asks you to do something, He will be right there with you, equipping you with the strength and peace you need even when you don\u2019t feel like you have the strength to let go. Plus, He\u2019s the most patient being you\u2019ll ever meet.<\/p>\n<p>God gives us the free choice to choose, and He will only come into your situation if you allow him to. When you learn to loosen your grip and need for control when it comes to your relationships, and focus your attention on the loveliness of Jesus instead, His grace and peace will surround you when you need it most.<\/p>\n<p>Eventually, I mustered enough courage to let go of my ex-boyfriend, and trusted the Lord to restore to me someone who would be the right fit for me, in His time. No longer did I want to trust in my own strength. I\u2019ve seen where that goes, with disastrous results, and now I step into my future a little bit wiser (I hope!).<\/p>\n<p>Yes, breaking up hurt so bad it had its own set of repercussions, but right there, I gave my broken heart to the Lord, and decided to trust Him to heal and restore me.<\/p>\n<h3>When all else fails, His Word is your lifeline<\/h3>\n<p>Friend, His heart is for you, never against you, and if ever there is a decision that He places on your heart, one that makes you go, \u201c<em>What<\/em>?\u201d, talk to Him about it. Walk with Him, and ask Him to show you what to do.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><strong>\u201cYet God has made everything beautiful in its time. And He has put eternity in their hearts, except that no one can find out the work that God does from beginning to end.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ecclesiastes 3:11 (NLT)<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>When you choose to trust in Him, things will not just change for the better, but it will turn out beautifully in its God-ordained season. There may be detours in life due to the consequences of our actions, but nothing you do can alter the destination God has destined for you.<\/p>\n<p>Here are some practical tips you can take when you\u2019re feeling down:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Pray about it, and ask Jesus to show you a passage in Scripture that speaks to your situation.<\/li>\n<li>Listen to worship music, like the ones found in <a href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/playlist\/0SbW1qLSOZiRtF8TeARwWl?si=M2if9gVyQ4mdPs4XOo1B0A\"><u>this playlist.<\/u><\/a><\/li>\n<li>Journal your thoughts and prayers.<\/li>\n<li>Tune out of social media for a while, and have personal conversations with Jesus.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>Surround yourself with wise counsel<\/h3>\n<p>If there is anything that\u2019s second to having a relationship with Jesus, it\u2019ll be having kingdom friendships to do life with. Friends who will tell us the truth when we may not want to hear it, and point us to Jesus when we want to try and solve our problems ourselves. They are God\u2019s angels of support during your toughest times, and will uplift you with biblical truths and promises.<\/p>\n<p>God is merciful in sending people our way, just like He did for me. I was blessed with an amazing godly friendship that I never imagined to have. (Fun fact: she\u2019s twice my age, but wow, she is a woman brimming full of life experiences and heavenly wisdom).<\/p>\n<p>Throughout my journey in that relationship, she was always there to remind me about God\u2019s Word, provide wise counsel and overwhelming support when I could not see a way out.<\/p>\n<p>Once when we were talking, it hit a nerve when she mentioned that the guy I was with could not sharpen me as a person. It may have been just one of many things that she said, but it was what God needed me to hear.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><strong>\u201cAs iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Proverbs 27:17 (NIV)<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>So, surround yourself with wise counsel. You never know who God has ordained to be the vessel that gives you the answer you\u2019ve been seeking.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>God promises to restore abundantly<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>At the end of the day, remember that we are called to be shepherds of His love towards the world, not to discriminate, disassociate and distance ourselves from unbelievers.<\/p>\n<p>But when it comes to matters of the heart and who we should be yoked with, God wants you to live your best possible life with someone who can stand in faith with you when it matters most.<strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>No matter where you\u2019re at in this journey, God has promised to restore (see Eph. 3:20), and He will do an amazing job! 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